tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-884355511625778778.post6436446329550566317..comments2023-10-04T06:23:23.885-06:00Comments on The Blog Of No Unifying Theme: My cousin's fiance is still a jackass.purplegirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02952678339075163056noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-884355511625778778.post-45288769806837425852009-07-29T17:48:00.439-06:002009-07-29T17:48:00.439-06:00I'm scared for her too. The first guy had her ...I'm scared for her too. The first guy had her planning to go to beauty school and do nails to put him through college; he had her not talking to her entire family, including her mother and brother; he punched her so hard he cracked her sternum; and when she finally broke up with him he emptied the joint bank account he'd talked her in to even though he wasn't working.<br><br>Seeing as that was her only other relationship, I'm scared to see even slight echoes of it now.purplegirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02952678339075163056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-884355511625778778.post-22229911795888507382009-07-29T16:19:13.053-06:002009-07-29T16:19:13.053-06:00PG,I hate to say this but the whole post scared th...PG,<br><br>I hate to say this but the whole post scared the crap out of me..I was married to an abusive man when I was young ...and the hair on the back of my neck stood up when I read the post.<br><br>She may not ask..but if it gets out of control...<br><br>I know , I know.<br><br>Thankfully, I got out of that deal and remarried a great guy..<br><br>I hope for the best for Christy, I really do.Aunty Polhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01180231169633828567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-884355511625778778.post-27042074624359681372009-07-28T01:17:44.833-06:002009-07-28T01:17:44.833-06:00I watched to bitch-slap him when he threatened my ...I watched to bitch-slap him when he threatened my adorable little pumpkin, that's for sure! But I'm trying to see beyond that. :)purplegirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02952678339075163056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-884355511625778778.post-36034835311616499172009-07-27T17:36:08.731-06:002009-07-27T17:36:08.731-06:00WOW! That guy is crazy. I can't believe that h...WOW! That guy is crazy. I can't believe that he threatened your dog... a dog is a mans best friend! I don't blame you with all the stories I have read to not like him.She-Fithttp://she-fit.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-884355511625778778.post-84439639650510929362009-07-27T02:17:15.459-06:002009-07-27T02:17:15.459-06:00I don't think it's love, though. I think i...I don't think it's love, though. I think it's her low self-esteem and her mother's pressure leading her down a path she'll ultimately regret. You're right, of course, that I don't know how they are alone; but when you're around them you just don't get a sense of affection, or really much of anything. She doesn't seem at all exciting about getting married--she doesn't show off the ring, or talk about wedding plans, or anything.<br><br>But I know it's not my business, and I'm not going to stick my nose into it unless she asks me what I think. Even then, I wouldn't be nearly as blunt as I am here. :) And since she won't ask me, I'll just be there for her whether this marriage succeeds or fails.purplegirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02952678339075163056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-884355511625778778.post-8193862158535193202009-07-27T00:32:46.789-06:002009-07-27T00:32:46.789-06:00Love does weird things. I'm sure some poet has...Love does weird things. I'm sure some poet has said something about not know what goes on behind closed doors, but it's true. No matter how concerned you are, you don't know what they are like alone together. And it's hard seeing someone you care about going through something like this (been there). Support her how you can, but to interfere is to ask for a sh*t load of problems.Simonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03772289434787056190noreply@blogger.com